Friday, June 26, 2009

Just Hanging Around




Well, the countdown shows just a little over 6 weeks and we can honestly say we are ready to graduate! Unfortunately there have been a few delays in our process of leaving and there is a possiblity that we will find ourselves "hanging around" for a little while. We are hoping to receive more answers in the next week concerning our next field of service, so we would ask that each of you would pray for us as we seek God's direction in where we should go. We know that He has a plan for us and we want to be sensitive to His will.


So if any of you have any suggestions for us as we take another look at South America, feel free to give us a comment and tell us what you think. PS, if anyone knows of a good home for a cute little hamster named "Nacho Libre" please let us know. He's just kind of "hanging around" too!

Saturday, June 20, 2009

School's Out For Summer

Well, the kids had their last day of school on Friday and we had a cultural day for our classes as well. As you'll see from the video the kids had a talent show and we had fun playing carnival games for our cultural day. For the record, I won 5 of the 7 games I played and Ken won 3 of the 7, but he would tell you he won the ring toss and that was of course the hardest game to win. He has the paper ribbon to prove it!

Thursday, June 11, 2009

The King of Spanglish

Our youngest son, Caedmon, has been afforded the benefit of more than 5 hours a day of Spanish-only day care during our 11 months here in Costa Rica. While our other two children have been in regular American-style classes with only an hour each day of Spanish instruction; Cade's teachers are all Ticas, and have cared for and taught him every day while we have been in language school.

As a result he has learned much from his "maestras" and fellow Ticos. He seems to easily understand cartoons in Spanish and when asked a question in Spanish he usually responds appropriately. However, at age 3, assimilating what he has learned into everyday conversation has been quite entertaining. He has a propensity for throwing Spanish words into his mostly English lexicon.
There is the usual mix of the Spanish in his sentences like, "I want más leche, Mamá." (more milk) and "Look, una mariposa!" (a butterfly). The other day he was counting and said, "Uno, dos, tres, four, five, six..." Just this evening he got liquid soap on his toothbrush and reacted with "That's just huacala!" (gross). Last night I cut my hair very short leaving the normal 1/16" guard off of my trimmers. He rubbed my head and told me my head looked like a "bola" (bola = ball).
We had been told that children are like sponges when it comes to learning a new language, and it seems that little Cade has developed his own little special combination of the two. I guess it's his destiny to be the King of Spanglish.

Saturday, June 6, 2009

That's Where the Party's At

Here is a collection of photos from Cade's birthday and from our trip to La Cumbre in the mountains. Disfrútelas.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Everyone Who Calls...

This day at the House of Restoration started like any other day. Courtney and I went to the house at 2:30 Thursday to teach a lesson out of the 12 step book we have been using. When we got there I saw Maria.

Last week after the lesson she spent some time with me talking about a dream she had that had really frightened her. We talked about the fact that God can give peace in even the worst of circumstances. We talked about what it meant to be a child of God. She told me she did not have that kind of relationship with God, but that she desperately wanted one. She then prayed to receive Christ as her Savior. I was a little skeptical about if she really understood the commitment she had made. She is a quiet lady and she rarely participates in the Bible studies we have. I found out that she did not know how to read or write and I found 2 of the ladies at the house who told me they would be willing to read the Bible with her during the week. I left the house praying that during the week she would stay strong in the faith as so many of the women face great temptation after they make a profession of faith.

Towards the end of the lesson this week I looked outside to the front porch and saw Maria talking with her son and his girlfriend. As the lesson concluded I went outside to tell Maria the "homework" for the week and I noticed tears in her eyes. I sensed that she wanted to ask me something, but I also felt like I was intruding at the same time. I walked back inside, but said for her to let me know if she wanted to talk to me about anything when she was done visiting with her family.

During this time I learned that there had been a baptismal service on Saturday and Maria and a few of the other ladies had been baptized. I was so happy to hear this news as it is a real profession of faith here in a Catholic country. As I was discussing this with some of the ladies we saw that Maria, her son, and the girlfriend were all crying outside loudly. When I inquired, "¿Qué pasó?" I was told that Maria's son and his girlfriend had just prayed with Maria to receive Christ. They were tears of joy! We gathered all 3 of them in the house and one of the other ladies, Angie, prayed over all three of them. What a beautiful thing to behold. I was so happy to see that Maria had not only embraced the Lord as her savior, but had on her first opportunity shared this joy with her son and his girlfriend.

When I first prayed with Maria I had been skeptical that she understood fully the commitment she had made. God has taught me a lesson that there is no room for cynicism when we share the gospel. Our job is merely to be the vessel that He chooses to use in the moment and then let God be God. He is the one who should convict, affirm, and change hearts. Salvation is a sovereign work of grace from God.

For everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. Romans 10:13

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Lessons Learned

A couple of weeks ago we had Cade's 3rd birthday party at Parque La Paz. We were thankful for the beautiful weather that we had that day as the rainy season has started and it is difficult to tell sometimes if the rain will start early or late in the day. Our friends the Bredbenners, Murphrees, Gillens, Constantes and Woods were there to celebrate with us. The kids enjoyed playing in the park and riding horses.

We had originally invited many people to come to the party, but several were unable to attend at the last minute, so we had several Thomas the Tank Engine cupcakes left over that I had made. Something we have noticed here in this culture is that strangers are not afraid to come up and ask for something they want. This was exactly the case as a girl who looked to be about 5 or 6 years old came up to me and pointed at one of the cupcakes I had on a plate. I realized that she wanted one, and although I still thought it strange, I gave her one anyone because of her boldness. Less than a minute later, her little sister came with her and she too pointed to one of the sugary treats. I gave her one, but this time I was getting a little put out, after all, it was a birthday party for my son and I really didn't feel like being the hostess to every child in the park that day. (There were well over 20 at the time!)
The next day I was running and listening to my daily 2 chapters in the New Testament on my ipod. As it would be, that day the verses I heard were from chapter 11 of Luke.

5-6 Then he said, "Imagine what would happen if you went to a friend in the middle of the night and said, 'Friend, lend me three loaves of bread. An old friend traveling through just showed up, and I don't have a thing on hand.'
7 "The friend answers from his bed, 'Don't bother me. The door's locked; my children are all down for the night; I can't get up to give you anything.'
8 "But let me tell you, even if he won't get up because he's a friend, if you stand your ground, because of your boldness he will get you what you need.
9 "Here's what I'm saying: Ask and you'll get; Seek and you'll find; Knock and the door will open.

10-13 "Don't bargain with God. Be direct. Ask for what you need. This is not a cat-and-mouse, hide-and-seek game we're in. If your little boy asks for a serving of fish, do you scare him with a live snake on his plate? If your little girl asks for an egg, do you trick her with a spider? As bad as you are, you wouldn't think of such a thing—you're at least decent to your own children. And don't you think the Father who conceived you in love will give the Holy Spirit when you ask him?"

Luke 11:5-13 from The Message

Wow, it hit me like a ton of bricks! Isn't that exactly what that little girl did? In boldness she asked for something she did not have, and because of that she received, but so many times I sit and suffer in silence over a situation in my life because my pride refuses to let me acknowledge that I need help. All I really need to do is in boldness ask the Lord for those things I need; peace, courage, strength, compassion, self-control, love...and would He too not give them to me when I am a beloved child of His? How many times do we walk around in despair or pain when if we will only diligently ask God to bring us through it, He gladly will.

I am so glad that day a little Tica girl asked me for a cupcake. I think I was the one who really received a reward that day.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

For Mom

This morning at 5am I awoke to the sound of fireworks. I remembered that today was suppose to be my day to sleep in as it is Mother's Day in the US. Here, however, it is not Mother's Day. They celebrate that special day in August. I wondered to myself where these fireworks were coming from and why. They were a little sporadic, but just frequent (and loud) enough to keep me from going back to sleep. Ken went out to investigate and asked a neighbor where they could be coming from. The neighbor nonchalantly said probably neighboring Zapote was having a fiesta. At 5 in the morning????!!!???? Are they crazy? When do they sleep? Then I remembered that the feria (farmer's market) starts at 5am in Zapote. I guess it was supposed to be our wakeup call to come to the feria.

Well, since it was Mother's Day, Ken told me to enjoy myself and go back to sleep after the fireworks stopped. As I snoozed off and on, Ken and the kids made me a big breakfast with pancakes, eggs and turkey bacon. The kids had each made me cards with little coupons like "Good for one free back massage" and "good for one free bed making" and others. I am excited to use my wonderful gifts!
Most of all I am thankful to God for giving me such a wonderful family. It is such a blessing to have a family that loves me. Thank you Lord for Mother's Day and thank you Lord for mothers!

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Wings

Yesterday we celebrated the 3rd birthday of our little man, Caedmon Samuel Nelson. I know some of you know the history behind his name, but for those who do not, I would like to tell you the story.
Cædmon was a simple farm laborer who became an Anglo- Saxon poet. How did this happen?
Cædmon was a herdsman and during joyous gatherings the herdsmen joined together and sang songs. When Cædmon’s turn to sing approached he quickly got up to avoid embarrassment, for he knew no songs and did not know how to sing. One night Cædmon went to the stable to sleep with the animals, and in a vivid dream he saw an unknown man who asked him to sing about The First Creation. He obeyed and used words which he had never heard before. The verse he wrote was full of praise for God and his creation, this verse was called "Cædmon’s Hymn"
He was thought to be glorified and honored with a divine gift. This gift was given to him by God; he received the “art of poetry.” He was welcomed in the community and later became a monk. He composed poems based on the first book of the Bible and also the New Testament. This all came from an uneducated man that merely wanted to serve God with the gift he had been given.
It is our prayer that our precious son, Caedmon, will serve God too with the wonderful gifts he has been given. We love you Cade.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

What a Day That Will Be

Last week we completed our second trimester and decided to go on a trip to Puntarenas to stay at the beach and have some fun. Our friends the Woods came with us for the trip. We had a wonderful and relaxing time and are now ready for our last trimester as the rainy season appears to have started back today!

Saturday, April 25, 2009

35 with 5 years experience

This last week I reached a milestone that I never really thought about reaching when I was younger; I turned 40. I awoke the morning of the 17th a little bit down as I went for my 30 minute run. My body ached more than it did when I turned 35. I also admit that my pace is probably quite a bit slower than it was at 35 too. Because I only had one class that day I thought of skipping school entirely, but I didn't. I really need all the studying I can get as it is a little harder to remember things it seems with each year that passes.
I wasn't really sure what the day would hold as not too many of my friends here even knew it was my birthday and with it being at the end of the trimester, I knew the first part of my day would be spent in the student sale. I also knew that Ken, being the last minute person he can sometimes be, had just invited some people the night before to come to Otero's for pizza that night, so I wasn't really sure that at the last minute anyone would be able to come.

As I was working the sale a dear friend, Nicole, brought me the perfect thing to brighten my day - flowers! When I arrived at grammar class late they all started singing to me, "Feliz Cumpleaños". I was even able to lay down and have a siesta for a little while that afternoon with Cade. I hear that's what you do when you get older.

Anyway, we went and bought a couple of small cakes and headed over to Oteros. Our kind Tico friends from here (Yoko and Gus) took us from the store to the restaurant so we would not have to take a taxi. That was another unexpected blessing for sure. When the waiter at Otero's asked how many would be coming we told him probably around 12-20 people give or take a few. Before I knew it there were 53 of us! I had to send Ken around the corner to get another cake from the bakery. I felt so special to have so many friends there.

Suddenly I did not really feel like 40, really more like 35 again. And so I have decided that I am really 35.....just with 5 years of experience!

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Semana Santa

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Friday, April 3, 2009

The Day After Tomorrow


This week I had to write a paper after we watched this movie (The Day After Tomorrow) in Spanish class. For any of you have seen this movie and just love it (like most of my teachers here in Costa Rica) I am sorry, but the science in it is way off. I do believe that the climate is changing, and surprise... I do believe it is a result of man's actions. Now here is the kicker. I believe that we are in the end times because Jesus clearly states in Matthew chapter 24 that we will see many changes here on the earth that will signal the begining of the end. Are these changes a result of our actions? Yes! These changes are occuring because we have sinned against God and against each other. I do not believe in global warming (I think most scientists today have said that with the polar ice caps refreezing at such a quick rate the "warming theory" has way too many holes in it) but I do believe that the world's condition will deteriorate drastically before the return of Christ because He has allowed these things to happen.
Anyway, this is my paper in Spanish class. It basically gives the reasons the Bible gives for being good stewards of what the Lord has given us (the earth). I did not get on a soap box, but I did think about it once or twice. For those of you who have never seen my post on "Iron Eyes Cody" from last fall, it will give you a good idea of how many central Americans see the environment as being very seriously... somebody else's problem. The river behind our house which stays full of trash, the cars and trucks with no fuel emission standards, the raw sewage allowed to flow in rivers and streets from houses and even government park buildings (see Manuel Antonio and the recent shut down for health reasons) are good examples...not to follow.
Anyway, here is the paper, and by the way, my teacher gave me an A.
La Biblia y el Medio Ambiente

Hay muchas cosas en el mundo que debemos cuidar, pero a veces los cristianos no vean el medio ambiente desde esta perspectiva. La película “El Día Después de Mañana” me hizo pensar,“¿Qué dice la Biblia sobre el medio ambiente?”
La Biblia dice que Dios nos hizo e hizo el mundo para que Él recibiera gloria y honor. Dios tenía la intención de que cuidáramos el mundo. (Génesis 1:26 Hagamos al ser humano a nuestra imagen y semejanza. Que tenga dominio sobre los peces del mar, y sobre las aves del cielo; sobre los animales domésticos, sobre los animales salvajes, y sobre todos los reptiles que se arrastran por el suelo.) Dios nos encarga que tengamos responsabilidad sobre los animales y la tierra (Génesis 2:15 Dios el Señor tomó al hombre y lo puso en el jardín del Edén para que lo cultivara y lo cuidara).
Ojalá que siempre hubiéramos cuidado el mundo como el Señor quería. En el Antiguo Testamento la gente tenía problemas como hoy. Dice Jeremías 2:7 “Yo los traje a una tierra fértil, para que comieran de sus frutos y de su abundancia. Pero ustedes vinieron y contaminaron mi tierra; hicieron de mi heredad algo abominable.” El mundo va a tener problemas hasta que nosotros tratemos de cuidarlo. Por ejemplo, no debemos matar a los animales hasta que ellos se extingan, pero muchas personas los han hecho (Proverbios 12:10 El justo atiende a las necesidades de su bestia, pero el malvado es de mala entraña.)
Además a mi me molesta que mucha gente use el rio como un basurero, y la calle también. Ezequiel 34:17-18 dice: En cuanto a ti, rebaño mío, esto es lo que dice el Señor omnipotente: Juzgaré entre ovejas y ovejas, y entre carneros y chivos. ¿No les basta con comerse los mejores pastos, sino que tienen también que pisotear lo que queda? ¿No les basta con beber agua limpia, sino que tienen que enturbiar el resto con las patas? El Señor nos dio la tierra para cuidarla y tenemos que ser buenos administradores de lo que Él nos ha dado.
El Señor no recibe gloria por nuestras malas acciones y no la recibirá mientras no cuidemos el mundo como Él lo desea. Pero, es evidente que no debemos adorar el mundo con nuestras acciones. Hay gente que no cree que la vida de los humanos sea más preciosa que los animales o la tierra. Ellos creen que "demasiada gente" debe interpretarse como un "contaminante" del medio ambiente o la naturaleza y por eso, el típico "el control de la natalidad" y el aborto por lo general son las teorías de apoyo. Es triste que hayamos permitido que esto suceda.
Finalmente, Deuteronomio 8:10 dice:"...alabarás al Señor tu Dios por la tierra buena que te habrá dado." Si tuviéramos respecto por la creación que Dios nos dio, desfrutaríamos más su creación. Por todo lo que recibimos, debemos dar gracias al Señor.
Now...English...
The Bible and the Environment
There are many things in the world that we should care for, but at times Christians do not see the world from that perspective. The movie, “The Day After Tomorrow”, made me think, “What does the Bible have to say about the environment?”
The Bible says that God made us and the world to bring glory and honor to himself. God had the intention that we would care for the world. Then God said, "Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth, and over all the creatures that move along the ground. (Genesis 1:26) God gave us responsibility over the animals and over the plants of the earth. The LORD God took the man and put him in the Garden of Eden to work it and take care of it. (Genesis 2:15 Dios el Señor tomó al hombre y lo puso en el jardín del Edén para que lo cultivara y lo cuidara).
I wish we always cared for the world as the Lord wanted. In the Old Testament the people had problems very similar to today. Jeremiah 2:7 says, “I brought you into a fertile land to eat its fruit and rich produce. But you came and defiled my land and made my inheritance detestable.” The world is going to continue to having more problems unless we take care of it. For example, we should not kill animals to the point of extinction, but many people have done just that. A righteous man cares for the needs of his animal, but the kindest acts of the wicked are cruel. (Proverbs 12:10)
Also, it bothers me that so many people use the river and the streets like their own personal trash can. Ezekiel 34:17-18 says, “As for you, my flock, this is what the Sovereign LORD says: I will judge between one sheep and another, and between rams and goats. Is it not enough for you to feed on the good pasture? Must you also trample the rest of your pasture with your feet? Is it not enough for you to drink clear water? Must you also muddy the rest with your feet? The Lord gave us the earth to take care of and we need to be good stewards of what He has given us.
The Lord will not receive glory from our bad actions, and He will not receive them in the future either if we do not care for the world as He desires. It is evident, however, that we should not worship the world with our actions. There are people that do not believe that human life is more precious than the animals or the environment itself. They believe that “too many people” are considered a “contamination” of the environment and nature, and for this “birth control” in the form of abortion is a theory they support. It is sad that this has been allowed to succeed.
Finally, Deuteronomy 8:10 says,”... praise the LORD your God for the good land he has given you.” If we have respect for the creation that God has given us, we will better enjoy His creation. In everything that we receive, we should give thanks to the Lord!

Monday, March 23, 2009

Culture Day



Today we had our culture day at school. Each trimester we have a day devoted to learning interesting things about the Latino culture. In previous culture days we learned about Christmas traditions, national holidays, food, music, and many more interesting little facts about life in Latin America. Today was no different as we were privileged to hear about common home remedies, popular children's games, music and dance, and of course food. It took me almost 13 years of marriage and becoming missionaries for Ken to finally take dance lessons with me, but it finally happened! We learned how to do the merengue and the salsa.

Another neat part about culture day is we get to eat some of the local cuisine, but this time we actually got to help cook it too. I finally found out the secret to making something with the brick-like substance they use instead of brown sugar. They melt it down with coconut, cinnamon, nutmeg and clove and make a sort of candy with it that is pretty good. We also had a great potato and meat dish with corn tortillas, fruit salad and a refreshing fruit drink. All in all it was a lot of fun and a great opportunity to experience some of the culture. Below left you will see the photo I call "white men can jump" and to the right I call it "white men can dance".

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Girls Just Want to Have Fun!

Here are some pictures from Kayleigh's 1st grade teacher's Surprise 50th Birthday Party. Happy Birthday Peggy. We love you.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Young at Heart

This last weekend I had the pleasure of going on a one night retreat to an area about 1 1/2 hours outside of San Jose with the ladies from our school. The theme of the retreat was "You are His Stars" and each of us was treated like stars during the day we were at the retreat with chocolate, star name tags, people to pray for us, and some wonderful messages from Marge, our speaker.

When we went there I was starting to feel a bit tired and worn out from the daily trips to school, continual studying, and feeling like I was moving at a snail's pace learning Spanish. I guess some people would call it a slump, but as I get closer and closer to the big 4-0 I think at times that maybe I am just feeling my age. Then I went on this retreat. They had fun games for us to play including one where we all lined up around the room according to our ages. I felt a little bummed as I looked around the room and realized that I was in the older 1/3 of the 70 or so women that came to the retreat.

During the retreat we were given a couple of hours to enjoy the pool and the big water slide. Because I recently dyed my hair back to it's original color of brown, (don't ask me about the "zanahoria/ orange" color I had been sporting for 5 months through an early miscommunication with a Tica hairdresser) and I didn't think it wise to get in the pool, but I enjoyed watching other ladies go flying down the slide squealing the whole way. The funny thing about the slide and the pool was that the ladies most represented were the women in the 50 something category. While me and my 30 something friends were staying a safe distance from the water, the 50 something "red hat" ladies were having a blast in the pool, doing water ballet, playing chicken, and acting like little school girls.

As I watched them frolick in the water I realized that they might be older than me, but what a blessing it was to see that these ladies were truly young at heart. And so I left the retreat renewed in my spirit with perhaps a lighter and younger heart than when I came.

Praise the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits, who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's.
- Psalm 103:2-5

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Playa Tambor

Here are some pictures of our recent trip to Playa Tambor with the iglesia here. We camped for 3 days on the beach. We had a wonderful time with our Tico and gringo brothers and sisters.

Sunday, March 1, 2009

"Monkey Snot" and Other Delicacies














There are many things about Costa Rica that are fun to experience. One of these is the variety of exotic, albeit sometimes strange fruits and vegetables available here. A favorite of our children is lovingly called "monkey snot" by gringos (also known as passion fruit). The shell is thin and when opened has several small seeds that are about the size of sunflower seeds. They are surrounded by a sweet flesh and are crunchy when chewed. Yum! The picture on the above left is of the mamón chino. The spines are surprisingly soft, and the seed inside is surrounded by a sweet flesh that you suck on and then spit out the seed. They are very popular here as a snack and fortunately very cheap as well.

Above to the right is the mangosteen. We were first introduced to a small cousin of this fruit at the beach. It is incredibly sweet. The outer shell is very similar to "monkey snot" and the inside seeds are too hard to eat, but the flesh around them is very tasty.

I learned finally why the cashew nut is so expensive. As you can see from the picture the cashew is actually attached to a fruit (Maranon) on the cashew tree. The nut itself is actually poisonous prior to cooking. It is the case that the double shell surrounding the raw cashew, which is technically a seed and not a nut, contains urushiol, a resin that can create significant skin rashes, and can be toxic when ingested.
Urushiol is the same chemical found in poison ivy, and it is present on the leaves of the cashew tree as well as in the raw cashew shell. Processing raw cashews can be a laborious and nightmarish ordeal, and people who work in cashew processing plants tend to exhibit greater allergies to cashew shells over time. There is a high incidence of skin rashes among people who either harvest or process raw cashews.

A favorite of Costa Ricans is the cas. They use this fruit mostly to make natural fruit drinks (frescos). You can actually take its fruit and peel it and place the flesh in the freezer. When you are ready for a cold refreshing drink you just place it, seeds and all, in the blender and blend away. There is no need to add sugar or anything. It is very delicioso and healthy!

Apples, grapes and pears are very expensive here. It is actually considered a nice gift. My language teacher was thrilled when another student gave an apple as a present at Christmas. Watermelons are available here but a bit pricey too. Now what they lack for in the usual fruit offerings they make up for in the availability of fruits like pineapple (about $1.25 a piece), mangoes ( around $.50 each), and papayas ( less than $1/ lb). Lemons, limes and mandarin oranges grow in people's yards, so I can buy 6 for $1 most of the time. Coconuts are so easy to find here that people actually buy them at the feria (market) with a straw in them just to drink the juice and then throw the rest away.

So next time you find yourself biting into a big juicy hamburger and feel sorry for us eating our vaca flaca ("skinny cow"our nickname for the beef here in Costa Rica), just remember that we can eat our weight in tropical fruits like "Monkey Snot"!

Saturday, February 21, 2009

He Makes All Things New

I will never forget the day I met Veronica at the House of Restoration. When we came in the house something didn't feel right. Instead of sitting at the tables waiting for us like usual, the women were all over the place, talking, drinking coffee, and there was a feeling of chaos. I started to get a whopper of a headache as I was trying to make sense of what was going on. One of the ladies there told us that another lady was being exorcised from a demon out in the back yard. Apparently the lady had bit another lady in the middle of the night. When I talked to the girl who had been attacked (Tatiana) she told me she had been awake most of the night because she felt an evil presence in the room. She finally fell asleep then suddenly awoke when the girl was on top of her biting her.

Now let me say that I believe there are demons in this world just as I believe there are angels. I have heard of people performing exorcisms, but I have never seen one. Although we could not see the women out back praying with the woman, I realized the ladies in the house did not see this for what it really was, spiritual warfare. I asked them what the week had been like before this happened. They told me they had had a great Bible study 2 days before. They said they just prayed for each other most of the hour. The next day they received more women for a total of 6 new faces. I realized that I did not know 1/3 of the new women there. Sierra (my fellow M) and I decided a change of plans was in order, so working with Matthew chapter 4 and how Christ responded to attacks from Satan, I taught them how to respond to spiritual warfare.

Anyone here that knows me also knows that I have a lot to learn in Spanish speaking. When I teach a Bible study I generally take most of a week to prepare. Before we came here I had only taught children's Bible studies, never adults. I can only say that it is a God thing that I could teach this lesson that Thursday, because I did not have the words in English to teach this, much less Spanish.

During the lesson new faces came in to join us. One lady even came up to me and in pretty good English told me she needed to practice her English with me. I looked at her and said, "Maybe we can talk after the lesson." She persisted wanting to know where we were from. I told her we were Americans and told her to take a seat and join us if she would like to. A few minutes later when I was making the important point that when under spiritual attack our first response should be to come together and pray as believers she interrupted me again and said very clearly, "Why do you not teach in English and I will tell them in Spanish what you are saying." Immediately I recognized what I had already suspected. This was the lady they had tried to drive a demon out of. I turned to her and in the best Spanish I believe I ever have or ever will speak I told her that the Lord sent us here to teach a Bible study in Spanish to these women. And furthermore, the Lord sent us with our families to this country to learn Spanish so we could spread His Word to the countries He was sending us to. I told her that the women in this house speak Spanish, so I will teach them in Spanish. Several of the women spoke up and said, "Yes, we understand you just fine. We understand everything you are saying to us." I knew Satan was trying to destroy my confidence to continue. I completed the lesson and gave them homework to read in Ephesians on the Armor of God. We prayed over the ladies and the house that a peace would settle over them and that they would grow spiritually.

The next week I came back with my friends and we taught on the Armor of God. Veronica was more subdued, and the ladies told me the week had been much calmer. The ladies were a little distracted at times during the lesson, but overall I think they understood the purpose of the Armor. As I left Veronica and Tatiana both pleaded for Crystal and me to pray for their little children as they missed them so much and wanted to see them. We wrote down their names of their children and ages and prayed with them before we left.

The following week Tatiana had left. She could not take being away from her babies any longer. Veronica did not come to the study. There were only 6 women at a study that usually has 15-18. I was sad because this lesson was on the Roman's Road plan of salvation. All 6 ladies at the lesson told us they were saved, but we handed out the paper with the scriptures and how to share the plan with others. We encouraged them to share that week with others that come.

All the next week we had Spiritual Emphasis Week at school with 2 services a day in the chapel. I was pretty busy with the praise team, classes, etc... The day of our study I found out Sierra would not be able to come because she was sick. I found myself praying again like I had 3 weeks before, "What do you want me to teach Lord?" I felt He wanted me to continue to encourage the women to share the gospel with others. The last week they had made it pretty clear that we were the missionaries and it was our job to share the gospel, but I wanted them to understand that Matthew 28:18-20 says that all of us are to be part of the Great Commission.

The lesson went well, and afterward Veronica asked for Crystal and me to pray for her again. She said she knew she had had a demon and now the demon was gone, but she was still afraid. She said she was a lesbian, that she had taken every drug on the street, that she feared for her children and herself. She said she wanted peace like we had. We prayed over her first asking God to protect her. Then I asked her if she was ready to give everything in her life to Christ. I showed her that she had to open her hands completely and give God her life, her addiction, her rebellion, even her children. She agreed and eagerly she said the sinner's prayer with me. When we were done praying I told her she never had to worry again about those demons because greater was Christ in her than anything in the world. I told her if she hears Satan whispering to her that "she can't change, that she will never be able to have a good life", that she just needs to say that she is God's child and he cannot take her from the hand of God.

Yes, Veronica looked like a completely different woman that day. Three weeks ago she was a disheveled woman with a wild look in her eyes; today she is a child of the King! Praise God! I look at her and I see the Father's love for us in that He pursues us fervently. We cannot hide in a valley so deep that He cannot reach in and carry us out of the pit. Praise God! Please pray for Veronica as she continues to grow daily in the Word and in her faith.
(A rare triple rainbow we saw when
leaving the House of Restoration.)

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Full of Surprises

I am sorry it has been so long since I have updated the blog. Things have been a little crazy here, both good and bad. Let me start by first saying thanks to everyone who has sent us packages. We have been batting about 50/50 on receiving them ever since a hard drive was shipped to us to replace the current one on our computer. Unfortunately I guess someone in customs felt like they needed the hard drive more than us, so it has made blogging a bit more of a challenge for me. Please pray that somehow it will get here through customs to us.

I wanted to put some pictures on here of all that has been going on, but I think I will have to do more than one blog for that, so on this blog I am putting pictures of a birthday party that Kayleigh went to of one of her friends from school, Gloriana. Her mom is also one of my teachers at school. The kids had a great time playing musical chairs, a ring toss game, and of course playing with the piñata. I got to paint some faces of some of the kids for fun. My favorite part was when Anna's (my teacher) little boy wanted me to paint his whole face like Spiderman!

On a serious note we ask that everyone would keep Ken in your prayers. He has had intermittent stabbing pains in his right groin area now for almost a week. He has seen a surgeon here to make sure it is not a problem with the inguinal hernia he had repaired several years ago. The surgeon didn't feel anything, but really didn't check for any other possibilities. I am sending him to a lab today to check and see if it is a kidney stone, so please pray for him as we seek an answer and healing. I promise to update everyone as soon as we find something out.

Friday, January 30, 2009

New Beginnings

Since arriving here in Costa Rica to study Spanish I have had the privilege to be a part of a ministry began by one of my colleagues who has since passed the baton on to others, who have in turn passed it on to us. The place is called House of Restoration for Men. There is also a women's house that you can read about on this site where Kirsten serves as well.

Visiting the House of Restoration has definitely taken me out of my comfort zone, as least what was left of it after uprooting our family and moving to a foreign land with a most-foreign language. Here, men are struggling to leave a life on the street, a life of substance abuse, violence, and despair. It is not the typical recovery center you would find in the States. There are no counselors or professional treatment programs. There is simply no money. What is there is a commitment to the use of Biblical principles to teach faith and reliance on God to overcome life's challenges.

That is where we come in. Each Monday, a few of us language students come to share a time of fellowship and study in God's Word. We are welcome and one of several teams from various ministries that come in during the week. This week was a particularly uncomfortable one for me as I had finally stepped up to lead the Bible study after struggling just to communicate and understand others for months. The meetings are held entirely in Spanish so the anxiety factor was high. Anyone here can tell you I am not very functional in Spanish, but the need is great and our God is greater.

There are a lot of new faces at the house since the Christmas break, so I thought I would share a basic evangelistic message that I thought would be a shame to take for granted that all have heard. I began the time together asking the men why they were there. This drew, as you can imagine, a few blank stares. I clarified by asking them not why they were in this house or this program, but rather why are they here on this planet. What were they created for? More blank stares.

I lead the men through the story of creation and how God created us in his image. Why? A relationship with Him. I showed them the Greatest Commandment in Matthew 22 - "...love the Lord with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind..." How can we do this if we do not have that relationship with Him. What hope is there for any of us?

We then began to search through the text of Romans. What is God's purpose for us? What prevents us from having that relationship? How did God remedy that problem? And lastly, what will our response be to God's provision for us through Jesus Christ?

Now, my Spanish is atrocious. It was all I could do to read my pre-written comments. I told the men up front that I would be asking them a lot of questions but would most likely not understand their replies. They assured me that it did not matter. They are a very patient group and used to putting up with us gringo language students. So, with a sense of impending embarrassment and humiliation I pressed on.

God showed me something that day. He showed me just how powerful His Word is and how sovereign He is. He showed me that the Gospel was His and His alone. It did not come in the door with me. It was there with Him when I got there. When we came to the end of the "lesson plan" I asked the men to consider what they had heard. I asked if there was anyone present who would be willing to put their trust in that provision alone and turn from all other attempts to be acceptable to God, to please God, and to earn what they were looking for. Who wants to have that relationship, that forgiveness, and that assurance? To my amazement, at least 15 men bowed and prayed to receive Christ as Lord and Savior of their life.

The man in me wants to analyze what happened and ask myself if they really meant it. Were they just going through the motions to make the Missionary Man look good on his Spanish debut. I don't think so. I think God showed Himself real that day and I cannot wait to get back to hear how he is working in their lives already. I think He showed us in no uncertain terms that when you speak to people about their Creator, the language is universal and very personal.

Please pray for these men and others who will be coming through the house in the weeks and months to come. Pray that God will show them just how much they mean to Him and that He has already won the victory they so desperately seek. For the men who are now my brothers in Christ, pray that they will grow in their desire to know Him more, that they will know what it means to overcome through faith in the Overcomer.

For us, pray that we will be able to begin a discipleship of these men and that more students will join in the work. We only have a few short weeks or months to spend with the men as they pass through the house. May our time with them count. May this place indeed be a place of new beginnings.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

One drop of Crimson

Basilica de Nuestra Señora de los Angeles is located in Cartago (about 25 minutes from San Francisco de Dos Rios). It was originally built in the mid 1600s, but has subsequently been rebuilt several times over the years due to earthquakes. On August 2, 1635, Costa Rican folklore says that the Virgin Mary showed herself as a small, black doll to a young girl named Juana Pereira. After the doll disappeared and reappeared several times at the creek where Juana had found it, the Catholic Church agreed that the Virgin wanted a cathedral built on that spot. The Basilica is today considered the holiest church in Costa Rica, and every August 2, the faithful make their way from all over the country, many walking for days on the side of the road, to pay homage to "La Negrita", the little black statue of the Virgin Mary found by the little girl over 370 years ago. The statue can still be seen today on the same rock it was supposedly found on.

People come to the Basilica in hopes of redeeming their loved ones from purgatory. You can purchase gold charms in front of the church to receive a healing. You can purchase charms in different shapes like arms, legs, stomachs, hearts, etc... Holy water runs from a spring there at the church and many people believe that it has special healing powers. Just about anything can be purchased in front of the Basilica... charms, holy water, rosaries, toys, even lottery tickets. I wondered if Jesus would have cleared the place like the temple 2000 years ago.

Probably the most moving sight for us when we visited earlier this month was that of people coming to the door of the church and immediately dropping to their knees to begin the long slow procession towards the front of the church on their hands and knees. Many are petitioning for healing of an illness. Some are pleading forgiveness for past sins. Sadly enough many are making this painful crawl for loved ones that have died in hopes they will be released from purgatory. All of this moved me to tears. As I sat in a pew and just took it all in, my oldest sat next to me and asked me why they were crawling to the front. I explained, "They don't understand, honey. All they need is the blood of Jesus. This statue can not bring them their healing, remove their suffering, or save their loved ones. Only Jesus."

The song is "Crimson" by Nicole Nordeman.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Birth Pains


Thursday afternoon at 1:11 our world was literally rocked. About 20 miles from us in a tourist area we visited during December, an earthquake of 6.1 magnitude shook all of Costa Rica and our neighbors in Nicaragua and Panama. What seemed like an eternity actually lasted only 40 seconds. As it first started I believed, like previous tremors we have felt, that this was just a little one. I discovered as the bed I was studying in did not stop jiggling, but actually started moving across the room that this was not just a little tremor. I heard Ken and the kids going to the front carport and realized Cade was still in his bunk bed in his bedroom. As I reached to get him the jiggling stopped so I thought, "Oh, it must be over." The jiggling turned into the kind of swaying one might experience on a small boat on the high seas. I quickly snatched up our youngest and ran for the door. Our Tico empleada was praying out loud "Santo Dios, ayudanos!" (Holy God help us!) I realized this was the real deal and started to pray myself. When the earthquake stopped I realized almost all of my neighbors had left their homes and were in the street. With all the power lines I'm not sure that is the safest place, but we have decided to have an emergency plan for the future now.

My neighbor said he thought we were close to the epicenter. Come to find out we were 20 miles from it. The town that was hit hardest is still searching for those missing. The death toll is at 34 with 64 still missing. Many children were killed in large mud slides while playing outside. Tourists in the area were also killed. Scarily enough there have been over 2,000 aftershocks. We have felt several of them.

We watched the coverage late into the night as the rescue workers tried desperately to get to people buried beneath the dirt that slid down the sides of the mountain. Connor asked me at one point what was that white bag they were trying to dig up. As I listenend to the newscaster I realized that they were trying to get to two little girls that had been buried alive while selling candy on the side of the street to tourists during their summer break. This picture is of the parents of those two girls. Please keep them in your prayers.

As you look at these pictures I ask that you would pray for the people of Costa Rica, especially those from Alajuela where the quake hit hardest. There is an active volcano there (Poas) that some believe could cause problems if we continue to have many quakes this year. Most of all please pray that the people of this area would seek the Lord as their source of comfort and healing. Thank you for your prayers and for your concern for us during this time.
...There will be famines and earthquakes in various places. All of these are the beginning of birth pains...
Matthew 24:7-8